Paradoxes of Life (It’s a sad story)

There’s a peculiar paradox. On one side, you see people suffering extreme pain: financial stress, emotional turmoil, family drama, marital strife, parental pressure, health and mental issues, historical baggage, future anxieties. On the other hand, there are those who live for something or someone, who can bring smiles to faces, brighten days with music or books, or enjoy a party, fostering better interactions and achieving a more balanced emotional, financial, and mental state.

In life’s cycle, we often find ourselves on one side or the other. However, it’s not as certain as following a predetermined trajectory. Many examples exist of individuals transitioning from one extreme to the other in just a few days. This transition depends on external factors and our reactions to them.

It’s as if we need to discern what’s written and what’s not. When we know what we’re seeking, we tend to find it faster than when we’re unsure of our purpose.

Life isn’t just sunshine and rainbows; for many, it’s pain. Phrases like “Jo hota hai achche ke liye hota hai” (Whatever happens, happens for good) are just a sham. Most who suffer may endure it for their entire lives, experiencing fleeting moments of relief but never true happiness. Conversely, those who are already happy may never truly experience profound sadness.

Religions, movies, and books often portray life’s end positively, but in reality, it seldom does. Reflect on the last ten deaths you witnessed (of close friends or family); do you truly know even 5% of their lives? While hope is valuable, it’s essential to remember that life isn’t fair for anyone or anything. Whether you suffer or find happiness, there’s often little you can do about it. Some people are just built for soaking pain others just get lucky substantial percent of times…Perhaps the best course is to accept the present : Love, care, be curious…