Your Laziness has its reason and you can fix it

Rebellious Individuality

Every child is unique; we often hear this sentiment. Yet, despite celebrating individual differences, children are often funneled into a uniform educational structure, where they find themselves engaged in relentless competition with their peers. This system makes all students do the same things, leading them to have similar lives. So, even though each child is unique, the school system kind of makes everyone’s experiences and outcomes alike. Luck favored those who enjoyed the system, while those struggle with laziness left behind. I written about this extensively here.

As a Data Science practitioner, I understand the statistical challenges involved, I don’t fault the government for creating such a stereotypical school system. It’s impossible to cater to every child’s needs. Moreover, when we look at our parents from a child’s viewpoint, they aren’t flawless either. Some kids possess something unique within them. They’re the rebellious ones, not conforming to rules, the ones sometimes labeled as lazy dogs…watched the movie “Taare Zameen Par”?

Learning Disabilities don’t affect just school

Learning problems don’t just mess up school; they mess up other parts of life too. If kids struggle in school, people label them as lazy. Keep calling a kid lazy, and they start acting like it. This affects their friends, dating, relationships, and how their life goes. Dyslexia is just tip of iceberg, I won’t get into the research, I am not the best person to write about it; So I’ll stick to calling it learning disability.

In the real world, individuals in their 20s and 30s who struggle with feelings of downheartedness, anxiety, or lethargy in their professional endeavors might experience these challenges due to neglecting to address underlying learning problems (it’s more common than you think). Back when we were in school 20-30 years ago, they didn’t care much about these problems unless you went to a “good school.” Things are better now, so kids today are luckier than we were. Here’s one: Link

Decode the Learning Disability

I’ve come across individuals who persistently grapple with various challenges, and even those who appear highly functional may contend with underlying issues. Some manage to push through, achieving success, only to find these challenges resurfacing later in life. Intrigued by neuroscience, I’ve noticed intriguing parallels with the struggles encountered by artificial neural nets (AIs), mirroring our own human complexities.

When tackling any problem, whether it’s solving a math equation, perfecting a biryani recipe, or choosing the right Doritos at the store, our brain naturally breaks down the task into simpler subproblems. Some aspects are “automatic,” like breathing or walking to the shelf, requiring little conscious thought. On the other hand, some components demand our focused attention, such as deciding which Doritos flavor to purchase.

The proficiency of our brain in dissecting a problem into manageable sub-problems is intricately linked to our learning ability. However, several factors can hinder this process. Challenges with concentration, as seen in conditions like ADHD or ADHA, or difficulties understanding “automatic” tasks, often associated with conditions like ASD, can impede effective problem-solving. Moreover, it’s not limited to specific disorders; various mental health issues, including anxiety, depression, or trauma, can impact cognitive function, making it harder for the brain to navigate and solve problems, even the emotional ones.

In such circumstances, expecting the brain to excel in complex tasks becomes pointless when its foundational problem-solving mechanisms are compromised. Enhancing cognitive abilities often involves addressing these underlying factors to make our brain properly function.

It is fixable at the root

If you’re feeling numb, lazy, or unsatisfied with your work or business, consider reaching out for medical help. As adults, we bear numerous responsibilities, and the world expects us to deliver our best. However, optimal performance becomes unattainable when our well-being is compromised—similar to attempting a mountain hike while under the weather. While I’m neither a medical expert nor a psychologist, numerous free online consultants may offer valuable assistance and guidance. Some for free! Here are 13 Signs And Symptoms Of Dyslexia In Adults

Numerous accomplished individuals, be they artists, scientists, or creative geniuses, have navigated the challenges of learning disability. The challenge you face in maintaining concentration might not be a reflection of your intelligence. Instead, it could be linked to unresolved issues or factors that haven’t been addressed.

Again, I am putting everything under the name of learning disability but there’re lot more challenges people go through. It’s possible the struggle isn’t just laziness; there could be something fixable at the root. Perhaps you are not just lazy; maybe you are struggling with something that you have yet to understand. Better get tested 🙂

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Book Recommendation for those who are interested in similar topic (A fun read):
“The Curious Incident of the Dog in the Night-Time” follows Christopher Boone, a 15-year-old with Asperger’s and dyslexia, as he investigates a neighbor’s dog’s murder, unraveling family secrets that challenge his worldview. The novel explores themes of trust, family dynamics, and the unique perspective of neurodiversity.