Journey of Curiosity
In “Drive My Car,” emotions quietly build as characters deal with the ups and downs of relationships and personal growth. Director Hamaguchi skillfully weaves a story that invites viewers to think deeply about acceptance and understanding. This Oscar-nominated film provides a powerful reflection on what it means to be human.
I’ve spent years untangling my perfectionism, how it pushes me forward but also holds me back. In this blog, I share my journey through the Dabrowski’s five levels of perfectionism, the struggles, the lessons, and how I’m learning to turn it into a force for growth and peace. If you’ve ever felt the weight of ‘not good enough,’ this is for you.
I’m fascinated by how love can be so confusing. Morally, loving more than one person might seem wrong, but our minds still allow it. For example, you might start a new relationship, yet an old love still lingers in your mind. It doesn’t vanish—it just fades as new feelings grow. We often hold multiple loves at once, and that’s both odd and intriguing, even though we don’t realize it.
Humans need connections, but life doesn’t promise to keep them intact. After my friend lost his father, I saw a silence in him I couldn’t understand. Maybe it’s my alexithymia, or maybe it’s the truth—his pain was his own, unshareable. We carry these invisible weights, things no one else can fully feel or take from us. Losing a father forces you to step up, and the world doesn’t pause for your grief.
The only person you need to answer to is yourself. The only question that counts is whether you can look in the mirror and be okay with the person staring back at you. You’ve got to start walking alone! Walk without expecting applause, without waiting for support. Because that’s what ambition is: it’s raw, it’s isolated, it’s not about anyone else. It’s about you, pushing yourself forward, wanting to move away from who you are now, to step out of this version of yourself.
In India, Autism Spectrum Disorder (ASD) frequently goes undiagnosed, with limited awareness and few mental health resources, particularly for adults. As a result, many live with challenges like social struggles, anxiety, and sensory sensitivities without understanding the root cause. Recognizing ASD traits, especially in adulthood, can offer relief, self-acceptance, and a newfound perspective on one’s strengths. This guide sheds light on the importance of early diagnosis and support, fostering compassion for neurodiversity in a society where it’s often overlooked. Embracing awareness can empower individuals with ASD to thrive, enriching both their lives and the understanding within their communities.